Spice Up Your Sexual Relationships By Trying Out These Sizzling Tips

Are you depressed because you are not able to spend quality time with your partner? Maintaining a relationship is not easy. In today’s modern day, it is very difficult to spend quality time with your partner, due to hectic word schedules, but that does not mean we do not try to make time for them.

Bringing your Sex Life Back on Track

Making an effort from your part can actually make a big difference to your personal relationships. You cannot simply go up to your partner when they are sitting and say “Hey honey, let’s have sex!” First and foremost, sex is merely not doing the “ultimate thing”. There is more to this.

Sex is about sharing an intimate relationship with your partner not just physically, but emotionally too. It is all above making love. If you are in a mood for some hot and steamy sex, that does not mean, your partner too should agree to it.

You might need to coax them into this. How to do this? Foreplay is the word. While watching TV, or reading a book, go up to your partner, sit next to them and talk about their day. Slowly begin to set the pace for your sexual advances.

For a woman, kissing, cuddling or hugging her might thwart her a bit and she might slowly get into the mood. Women take a lot time to climax compared to men, so you might need to be patient with her.

Step Out of the Boring Routine and Try Something New

You definitely do not like to do monotonous work, and you want to try out new and different things. Then why not show the same treatment to your sex life. This might be one of the reasons, why your partner does not look interested in sex.

Some of the best ways to rekindle and add spice to your sex life would be by:

  • Trying out new and different sex positions
  • Try being a bit adventurous and if your partner is comfortable, you can purchase some sex toys and try them out with each other
  • Do not limit your sexual conquests to your bedroom. There are different places in your home, which has still not caught your attention. Experiment and find out.
  • In addition to sex toys, you can even bring in food such as whipped cream with chocolates or chocolate sauce, cherries or strawberries and use these to feed each other blindfolded.

Come Out of Your Comfort Zone

If you want to try out something new with your partner, do not hesitate to ask. For all you know, she too might like the idea. If you do not communicate with her, how will you know? Secondly, ensure that both of you enjoy your sexual experience. Bring in light and fun games into the picture. Indulge in role-plays or go kinky with each other.

Give each other a massage and work out the tension knots from your arms and neck. Set the right ambience to create a sensual mood. Later on, you can convert a normal massage to a sensual massage, but getting to each other’s erotic zones.

Ensure that you are well groomed and have had a shower at least before trying such stuff with your partner. No one likes to indulge in sex with a smelly or unhygienic partner.