Increase Her Sexual Pleasures By Treating Her To A Hot And Sexy Massage

Whether it is a new or an existing relationship, there is always a way to come up with new and exciting things to do in regards to your sexual life. If you feel that, your sex life is becoming boring and monotonous then why not seduce your lady love by treating her to some sensual massage. Massaging in the right way to get things quite heated up and can get you and your partner into the mood.

Massaging Acts as a Stress Reliever

One of the best things about massages is that it can help to relieve stress and anxiety. If you are good with your fingers and hand, then you will definitely score with your woman. Strong and secure hands make women feel safe and secure. A good massage can help you in these things:

  • It can help to lower your blood pressure and heart rate
  • It can help in muscle relaxation
  • It helps in the production of endorphins, the ‘feel good’ chemical
  • It helps to improve the dopamine and serotonin levels in the body

Before you go about your massage, ensure that you set the right ambience in the room. A room with loud music will surely not help in soothing your partner. In fact, it might worsen your situation. Ensure that the place that you choose has scented candles and exotic massage oils (vanilla, lavender, and sandalwood). Begin by asking her to undress or you can do the deed yourself. It will be more erotic for her. Give her a warm bath with scented bath salts. It will help her relax better.

The Right Way to Massage

After a nice warm bath, ask your woman to lie on the bed on her stomach. Begin with light feathery strokes starting from her neck to her spine. You can make use of some light scented pleasant smelling massaging oils. Massage her with your fingertips. Apply light-pressured strokes.

Slowly make use of your palm to massage her back. Use both your palms and move them in circles across her back. Avoid the spine area. Now that she is completely relaxed by your ministrations, you can slowly target the lower part of her body. Begin from her shoulders and lightly massage your way down to her buttocks. Keep the touch light by applying just little pressure.

No massage is complete without the thumbing technique. Over here, you can make use of your thumbs to massage her lower back. Make short and rapid strokes using both your thumbs. Here you can apply more pressure and use your hands to knead her muscles to relieve the tension knots in her body.

Read the Signs Given by Your Partner

Bear in mind to pay attention to the signs sent out by your partner. While massaging, you might feel her loosening up. She might sigh or moan letting you know that she is highly aroused and ready for some hardcore action.

Use this opportunity to indulge in a bit of foreplay. While massaging her back, you can slowly glide your fingers near her buttocks to massage her anus. Slide your fingers further down and finger her clitoris. Keep building the momentum. You can even lick your way down her back and arouse her.