Who Cares More About Penis Size, Men Or Women?

Penis size has been a topic of heated debate. Men associate the size of their penis with their masculinity level. Thus they assume that the bigger their penis size, the more dominant they are. This obsession is so strong that some men even peek at their counterparts’ in the locker room to compare sizes. But is this assumption correct? Still, do women really care about penis size? Read more to learn about who, between the two, cares about penis size.

Penis size continues to intrigue everybody. While many men feel that they are not adequately endowed, some women have expressed dissatisfaction with their marital relationship.

Could the penis size be the reason for these misunderstandings?

There was a famous research done by Masters and Johnson in 1966, which concluded that women do not find any difference in their sexual satisfaction in terms of a man’s penis size, as mentioned in The Journal of Sex Research (JSR). However, in recent years, it seems this research has been challenged.

It is understandable that some men would worry about such a possibility. After all, it has been established that men do suffer from anxieties regarding their penis size.

Like, the penis size matters a lot to them. In essence, they also think that women would care about their penis size just as much. But what’s really the truth?

A study that challenged the Masters and Johnson study was published in BMC Women’s Health in 2001. The study saw that women in marital relationships really do consider the differences in penis width as an element of sexual satisfaction. The result is indeed more physiological than psychological. So we know that women have certain preferences.

It is unfortunate that many men wonder if their partners would stop liking them just because of their penis size.

In reality, this may just be an acute sense of lack of self-worth on the men's part.

After all, it is widely known that some men do suffer from 'size complex' that could have been caused by excessive enjoyment in porn.

Yup, blame it all on porn. Men who watch porn regularly are exposed to seeing porn actors who have big penises. They will automatically be comparing themselves to the actors, right?

Meanwhile, it is also suggested that men fantasize about having sex with the porn actresses through the lens of the actors.

So they have this skewed perception of their own real size. They end up always wanting more or bigger.

Or, it could also be the case that these men care too much about their partner's breast size, and thus, this reflects back on them being super self-conscious about their own size.

Whatever the case may be, we shall look further into the psychology behind this age-old question.

To get to the crust of the matter, we delve into the ideal penis size. We can measure a penis both in flaccid and erect modes. The size of a flaccid penis is usually misleading.

Why? It's dimensions changes significantly when it gets erect.

Therefore, it is enough to judge a man's size when he is not particularly sexually charged.

However, when men look at each other's male members, most of the time they will be seeing the other man's penis size when flaccid.

They would never know how big that penis is capable of getting when aroused and erect, right?

Some men are growers, while others are showers.

A grower is a man whose penis length and girth increase significantly when erect as opposed to when it's flaccid. The opposite can correct about a shower penis.

So, if you think you’re not big when flaccid, but then you get really big when erect. That’s all that matters. But men aren’t easily satisfied with a simple answer.

Due to this wide variation, most people are eager about the dimensions of an erect penis.

Numerous research works establish that a penis length is about five inches erect and a diameter of four and a half, while straight is the average.

It is true that some women like longer penises because such penises can trigger vaginal orgasms more easily, according to a study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine. But even short penises that are fat can still trigger clitoral orgasms pretty easily and that’s awesome enough for most women.

Still, men continue to express their anxiety due to aggressive marketing for a longer penis.

At this point, you should be reminded that when it comes down to penis superiority, hardness matters more than just length. Most of the time, this is what women like, too.

A fat, rock-hard penis feels better in the vagina than a long penis that does mostly whack a woman's abdomen.

That could be painful and no woman is okay with that sensation. Be that as it may, women do care more about how a man does in bed with what he has got down there.

Several studies have concluded that over three-quarters of women aren't particularly keen on penis size.

A study published by the British Journal of Urology International confirms that 85% of women are satisfied with their partner's penis size.

On the contrary, only 55% of the men polled expressed satisfaction with their male members.

There are two popular reasons for the apparent lack of contentment with their size.

The first factor relates to the angle at which men perceive their penis. From the top-down view, the penis appears much shorter than it actually is.

At the same time, when they look at their colleagues' manhood, at a proper angle and compare them with their own, theirs would naturally be small.

Most men who are too body-conscious miss the point that penis size should not be a competition in the first place.

Your penis and what you do with it is your private business with the person you are having sex with.

If the both of you are doing just fine, there should be no reason for you to feel inadequate just because your favourite adult actors all have massive penis sizes.

Another reason is that most men always see their penis in flaccid form and assume that the member simply tilts upwards when erect but main the same size. This is a wrong diagnosis.

At any rate, if there is any takeaway here is that you need to realise that how you perform in the bed matters more than your sheer size.

As said already, most women don't care about size, but they do care about what you can do with your penis.

Even if a penis is small, if your shaft can stimulate the woman’s clitoris, there is no problem at all.

Basically, that means they care more about your skills, both in seduction and penetration itself. In reality, many women don't enjoy penetrative sex as they enjoy the foreplay itself.

Most women also have stated that they enjoy sex more when their partners use other body parts--or even tools--like the fingers or tongue.

With that said, no matter what your size is, as long as you know how to please a woman's body in various ways you will be just fine.

The most important thing is your skill and this requires time and practice. Instead of watching porn, try to read about sex. Porn is not educational. Porn is for fantasies but it is mostly rotten behavior.

If you want to be really good in bed, learn real sex skills and treat your partner with respect. Women are known to have a better chance at getting an orgasm when they feel loved and appreciated.

Conclusion

Thanks for reading “Who Cares More About Penis Size, Men Or Women?”

Over 75% of women care less about the size of their partners’ penis. But men tend to be more conscious of this size.

Yet these women are more concerned about the sex skills men use. They enjoy foreplay and teasing, leaving the penetrative sex as the last part.

So men who use other body parts tend to score more on creativity, no matter the penis size.

But only a fifth of women care about the size of their men.