5 Foreplay Tips To Make Sex Even Better

Foreplay equates to warm-up in any sport. What does warm-up do to your body? It sets your mind and body to the task at hand. Besides, it helps the muscles to flex so that they are not sore after the game. Similarly, foreplay has that role. Unfortunately, men prefer sidestepping it and going directly into the main course. The results of this shortcut are usually far from perfect. Here are five foreplay tips to make sex even better.

1. Set the mood

Men can easily focus on sex immediately they think about it. Women, on the other hand, don't possess such luxury. In fact, most females can't arouse by viewing sexual images.

Instead of settling on the bed and undressing, women can dwell on completely irrelevant things.

Women tend to notice all irritating and pending chores that make them arrange the clutter instead of thinking about intimacy.

Don't be awed by such behavior, for its part of the process of getting into the mood. But you can hasten this process by setting the right mood for foreplay.

According to Verywell, setting the mood for sex improves the experience by establishing a relaxing, comfortable environment. Sensory engagement through lighting, music, and aromatherapy heightens arousal, while emotional connection strengthens through intimate conversation and foreplay. Anticipation and excitement contribute to intensified desire. Minimizing distractions and cultivating a peaceful atmosphere aids in maintaining focus for both partners.

Light a scented candle and dim the lights. These two actions can quickly calm thaw tension in the room. Playing soft music in a low tone relaxes your partner.

You achieve more by drinking a glass of wine. Setting the right ambiance and giving your woman time to readjust is critical for better sex.

2. Use Sex toys

Sex toys are the spice you need to flavor your sex life. They come in many sizes and functionality. Hence they can enhance your foreplay adventure significantly.

So what are sex toys? Well, these are implements that you use to spike your libido. The mere sight of these tools can get your blood charging and turn you steamy with desire.

You can use them on yourself and your partner. Alternatively, both of your can take turns pleasuring each other.

One advantage that sex toys bring is that they can reach harder-to-reach-crannies and crevices. This way, they stimulate even the most hidden treasure folds.

Using a sex toy also relieves the pressure and tension you undergo when using your hands. A slight movement releases a massive tingle that radiates to all the right places. 

Yet, some of these items come with switches. All you have to do is power then, and they relay all the excitement that would have taken you so long to master and perform.

3. Try Massaging

Touching is a proven avenue to arousal. Start by touching non-erotic areas such as hands, back, and stomach.

As your partner's body warms up, go to the other regions such as the thighs, buttocks, shoulders, and breast.

Besides caressing these areas, massages are essential in relaxing the mind. Don't be quick to mount your partner.

Instead, give about ten to fifteen minutes of foreplay while you invest almost half the time on touching.

But you can still spice up things. Adding oils and scents can heighten the feeling. Oils enhances skin's sensitivity to touch, thus helping to release more oxytocin.

You can go further by incorporate scented fragrances to trigger the smell. The sweet aroma coupled with an irresistible touch wakes up your partner's senses quickly.

In massages, ensure that you make deliberate strokes. Varying the strength and intensity of the rubs only excites your partners faster.  

According to an article on the Counseling Directory website, massages are an excellent choice for steamy foreplay as they engage multiple senses simultaneously. They provide an opportunity to deeply explore and appreciate each other's bodies, whether it's through hours of sensuous touches or a rapid buildup to an intense climax. Regardless of the massage's direction, the key is embracing your pleasure and fostering intimacy with your partner.

4. Talk dirty

Sex doesn't start in the bedroom. You can begin the process by playing mind games. Talking helps to set your partner's mental state into the mood.

Call her to compliment how nice her body is perfect. Tell her how you want to touch and kiss her.

But also encourage your partner to state what she wants from you. This way, you are already charting your path to the bedroom.

Most women want men who care about their feelings in the bedroom.

And so, asking her candidly what she enjoys and how she wants to be treated during intimacy only reinforces this belief. 

Most likely, she will freely offer suggestions. If not, she will give you hints on how to get her roaring with desire. 

You don't have to suggest that you go to bed immediately. It's better that you engage in this talk well before dating. It creates anticipation for things to come.

5. Play with the clitoris

Many studies confirm that less than 18% of women orgasm through penetrative sex. Besides, most women contend that they are aroused more by touch than sight.

As reported by Indian Times, the clitoris is the most sensitive pleasure zone in a woman's body. Gentle caressing and stimulation of the clitoris can lead to intense orgasms, as it contains approximately 8,000 highly sensitive nerve endings. It's important to note that the clitoris becomes erect during sexual arousal, similar to a penis, and is a highly erogenous area.

Touching the clitoris is thus essential during foreplay. And if you want to stir your partner's libido, know how to rub it.

This pleasure point is perhaps the most erotic zone in women's bodies. And why not? It has a dense concentration of sensitive nerve ending that pings all over women's anatomy.

The clitoris rests recessed and hooded within the vagina. Due to its sensitivity, any manhandling could cause pain instead of pleasure. So you have to work your way around it at first.

When you stimulate the areas around, it grows and engorges. Yet, the process causes intense arousal coupled with moans and coos.

And when fully engorged and you continue to manipulate this location in circular and lateral moves, it can result in a quick orgasm. 

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6. Touch

Touch is sensual as well as sexual. But it’s the first step of breaking the ice and reorienting your mind from a normal schedule to intimacy.

Touching brings your body close and triggers sexual hormones. It starts with innocent touches like holding hands and arms.

You can then move to mildly erotic areas such as the inner arm, belly, and neck. Still, you could perform elaborate touch rituals such as dancing together or giving sensual massages.

Rubbing against each other feels good and helps blood rush to the heart and genitals. This way, mild or gentle touch helps to relax the nerves and body.

Different people have areas on their bodies that feel lovely to touch, yet aren’t sexual. Running a finger on the hair or the buttock may feel good or bad to some.

So be sure to know where to tickle for excitement, by noting how she reacts at various points.

Exploratory touch may help you discover erogenous zones that your partner hadn’t known existed.

7. Get wet

Using the bathroom together is fun. It also may qualify as a role play, but here you get serious for once.

Bathrooms could be risky for passion. Ensure that you are careful and handle the process diligently.

Using a shower may do more than just clean yourselves. The bathroom affords you an excellent view of your partner’s body.

Showering together allows you to scrub and rub each other well. Taking turns scrubbing each other elevates excitement and is foreplay in itself.

Once finished, you can wipe each other and wrap yourselves using one towel as you and your partner like. Afterward, head to bed for the main course.

A bathtub offers even more. Bathing in a tub allows you to have fun while in a confined area. And being that you are seated and comfortable, you can process your foreplay and even conclude the main course without risking an accident.