5 Secrets To Making A Woman Orgasm Every Single Time

Sex is about sharing and caring. So the threshold of any sex for a woman is her reaching climax. A man who cares about a female lover’s feelings is thus expected to go that far. But ensuring that your woman attains orgasm every time you have sex is a difficult fate. The good thing is that you can master these tricks with a little effort. Below are the five secrets to making a woman orgasm every other time.

1. Take your time

Time heals everything ? both pain and pleasure. Thus it's what you require most to garner a woman's desire to orgasm.

After all, orgasm is the final release culminating from gradual and sustained stimulation.

Since women need twice as long as men to reach here, it's only prudent that you lead your woman through the process well. How do you do it?

Concentrating on foreplay is the first step of this journey. Foreplay is to prepare a woman for penetrative sex. But you must do it long enough so that she is close to orgasm before mounting her.

According to a blog post on Everyday Health, numerous women require ample physical and emotional stimulation to experience arousal, lubrication, and prepare themselves for an orgasm. This highlights the vital role of foreplay, which should not be hurried or regarded as a mere obligation. In fact, foreplay can commence hours before engaging in sexual activity, and every moment of it contributes to preparing a woman for an orgasm.

You can explore all her erogenous zones during this time, from the least sensitive to the most compelling.

Here you can begin by rubbing her hand and shoulders. Next, reach for her neck, nape, and knees.

Don't also forget that slow long session of kisses and snogging also help to sustain arousal.

2. Click the clitoris

There are well over fifteen thousand nerve endings radiating from a woman's clitoris.

These are essential for transmitting sex signals to the brain and other organs. So playing with the clitoris is an excellent way to get a woman to orgasm.

Many studies assessing orgasm in a large population confirm that the clitoris plays a vital role in helping women attain orgasms.

Several pieces of research have demystified this assumption. A 2017 research covering 1000 female participants indicates that less than a fifth of women orgasms through penetrative sex.

Yet more than three-quarters are likely to hit the peak via clitoral stimulation alone.

So use your fingers to stroke her clitoris in a way that she likes. You can also stimulate her clitoris with a variety of moves. 

In missionary, slightly arching your body upwards increases clitoral stimulation with the clitoris.

The woman-on-top style also helps when you prop on your elbow, making you likely to hit her clitoris with your pelvis.

3. Lube up

Even though clitoral stimulation is essential, a sufficiently lubricated woman reaches orgasm faster. Without lubrication, sex gets painful and uncomfortable.

Getting wet differs between different women. The older they are, the more difficulties they face secreting natural lubricants. It doesn't matter how turned-on mentally they are.

All women depend on some hormones to help them secret enough juices. But as they age, the process slows down, resulting in less lubrication while taking longer.

Thus they need a little bit of manual greasing to reduce traction.

But it's not women alone who need a bit of grease. Studies indicate that men also benefit from this act.

Those that smear a little cream over their condoms last longer in bed, helping their women attain orgasm. 

The lesser the friction, the more the excitement. Using gels eliminates the psychological worry about not being able to get wet. 

The result? Women give more attention to the task at hand, resulting in massive climaxes. 

4. Follow instructions

Apart from using lubricants to moisten her up quickly, tracing her heed is also vital to make a woman orgasm. One way to get her here is through learning what she enjoys.

She knows what triggers her most, and will guide you through the process. All you have to do is to listen to the subtle clues, whether verbal or non-verbal.

She will show you if oral is what she needs and how intense you should do it. Further, she will guide you to the right places to stroke with your fingers and palm.

If you are keen, you might even pick the strength and speed of these caresses.

A simple rub or tap on your back will intrinsically show you that you are in the right direction and should continue down the path.

Some women will help you out by playing with the part of your body they require you to stimulate on theirs.

5. Role-playing

Acting is a known secret that supports a woman to reach orgasm quickly. Yet, it is one of the most underrated methods men use during sex.

Role-playing requires creativity. It's imaginative and linked to what excites a woman. All women are different, so what one enjoys doesn't work for another.

Based on the Every Girl blog, it is stated that engaging in role play has the potential to enrich a woman's sexual encounters through various means. These include cultivating emotional bonds, delving into power dynamics, introducing excitement and newness, fulfilling fantasies, and facilitating effective communication. Although role play may not directly result in orgasm, it creates a sexually charged environment that heightens arousal and pleasure.

Sexual role play is an experimental approach to exciting your woman. Most women have sexual fantasies that they want the right man to fulfill.

They won't tell you about them, and so you have to figure it out.

You can do this through the plain old method of asking. Or you can try to surprise her with several moves. Some of these acts may work, while others could fail flat.

The advantage of asking is that you go through to what she needs. You may follow a fantasy to tickle her to the edge. Yet your surprise move could also bear fruits that you didn't expect.

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6. Talk

Sex is deeply expressive. So women wonder why some men become mum during the action. Even though you are seriously engaged mentally and physically, you can still talk.

Intercourse shouldn’t be a serious formal affair. Instead, it should be a relaxed “round table” meeting, where you can crack a joke or two, without the fear of being judged.

In this situation, you may engage in plenty of non-verbal communication. Which is good.

But when you include talking, sex becomes better, and orgasms are more likely. Yet, you don’t have to curse and swear.

All you need to do is praise your partners, comment on how good you are feeling, and how certain manipulations excite you.

This way, you can even direct and guide the tempo, speed, and styling. Talking to your partner makes them more likely to express their feelings too.

Good communication brings better sex and increases the likelihood of you hitting all the right buttons, culminating in a female orgasm.

7. Kiss more

Men are aware that kissing feels nice. But they only engage in this lip-locking during foreplay or to get in between their partners’ legs.

Once they are in, they forget all about the mouth. Instead, the focus is on thrusting and grinding.

But you shouldn’t forsake the tongue. To heighten arousal, you should continue kissing even more passionately during sex.

Most men avoid kissing during sex as this act may propel them faster to orgasm, yet they want to please their partners. This is fine. In as much as deep throating is accelerating your pace to orgasming, so does it to your partner also.

Hence you can indulge in this action sparingly and intermittently. This means that you may kiss her to elevate the feeling then stop and continue later.

Varying kissing styles with sex brings an exotic feel. But it works to bring your female to orgasm.

A 2017 Sexual Behavior survey confirms this situation. It concludes that females are more likely to orgasm when they receive oral sex, genital stimulation, and kissing.

Also, in an interview with Dr. Carol Queen, a respected sexologist holding a PhD, featured on the Bustle blog, she reveals that orgasms are fundamentally neurological reactions originating in the brain. Surprisingly, the act of kissing possesses remarkable potential for both neurological and erotic stimulation, owing to the mouth and tongue's abundance of nerve endings. When accompanied by the appropriate conditions, such as mutual attraction and the preferred manner of kissing, a powerful orgasm can undeniably ensue.